Life is hard(for most part). We need at least good people and few purpose to have a decent day.

And this is the framework I use to keep whom I want in my life.

Make a list of people who matters the most. People matter to you in different way. Some support you, some pushes you, some teases you and some stand with you no matter what. Also, we need to be around people whom we can be just ourself.

Core: My closest people. Combined not more than 6. I can share anything. I know they like me for whatever I am and I know they don't judge me. These are also the people I can rely on, ask for help without any hesitation. I try my best to stay in touch by calling or texting.

Tech: To discuss anything tech, physics, photography. Anything in general but specific topic in depth. I could discuss the details and get many 'aha' moments. Super important to keep learning.

The good friends: These are good people. Great to hangout with. They know me well. I know them well. I might not share everything, yet we both have some idea how the life is going.

I also have a framework for not to keep some one in my life. It's like a litmus test. They should not

1. have higher ego.

2. lie (at least too much).

3. gossip.

4. extreme religious/political supporter.